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Νέος μπαμπάς - new dad! Help !

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    Νέοι μπαμπάδες, αντιμετωπίζετε κάποια έκτακτη κατάσταση για την οποία χρειάζεστε βοήθεια, απο άλλους μπαμπάδες/ή άλλες μαμάδες?

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    Κείμενα ειδικά γραμμένα για νέους μπαμπάδες !

    Most men initially respond to their spouse/significant others conception with intense joy, excitement and pride. Some may settle into a brooding, contemplative state where they internalize most of their concerns. Below is a list of things you may be concerned about as a new father. It is important to address these concerns with your partner prior to the birth of your new infant.

    Concerns for Fathers

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    Loss of “Me” Time

    As a new father, a man may not be as spontaneous or flexible with his time as he was before. Soon a complete stranger will become his top priority. It may take a great deal of reassurance and support from friends and family for dad to accept the idea that fatherhood can be the best experience of his life.

    Financial Worries

    Some dads may feel overwhelmed with the financial demands of starting a family. Cribs, car seats, diapers and formula quickly start to add up. Couples should allow some time to shop around and look for good prices.

    Capacity as Father

    Fathers need to be prepared for a profound sense of permanency. Every aspect of life will be different now. Dads may be wondering if theyʼre going to be any good at being a father or compare themselves to their own fathers. Itʼs also normal for dads to be concerned about their performance at the hospital, but they should keep in mind that they probably wonʼt faint and surely they wonʼt be expected to boil water.

    Mortality Issues

    It can be very sobering for fathers to realize that they are suddenly going to become the adult in a relationship and an instant role model for their child. They may also become aware that should anything happen to them, the mother would have to raise their child alone. Dads should be encouraged to reconsider some of their unacceptable risky habits like smoking, or heavy drinking.

    Concerns for Dad and Mom

    frustrated father

    Health Concerns for Mom and Baby

    Even with the fullest understanding of the process of pregnancy, fathers may still be nervous or afraid for the health of the mother and baby. Learning as much as possible can about pregnancy and asking questions at the doctor visits can be reassuring. Dads shouldnʼt be afraid to ask any question that comes to mind about the pregnancy, labor, and delivery at these visits.

    Relationship Fears

    This experience can be the greatest experience that couples will have together, but itʼs normal for men to be concerned about how it will alter the relationship with their spouse. Every aspect of a relationship will undergo some changes. Sexual intimacy, physical and social activities will all be influenced as fathers and mothers learn to think and function as a family. However, itʼs important for everyone to know that life can return to normal after the birth and that the couples can enjoy time again as friends and lovers.

    Frustration with Her Physical Condition and Emotional State

    Fathers need to understand that changes that occur to their spouseʼs body may be as foreign to them as they are to the mother. She will rise and swell in places and proportions men never thought possible! Itʼs important for dads to be very open about their concerns because she is likely having many of the same thoughts and feelings. Men should approach topics carefully, realizing that a simple comment, intended as a compliment may seem horribly insensitive to the spouse. Also, it can be discouraging for some men to think that their spouseʼs body and temperament will be forever changed, so it is important for dads to keep in mind that her body and personality can get back to normal again in due time.

    - See more at: http://www.purplecrying.info/sub-pages/information-for-dads/fatherhood-when-the-worries-settle-in.php#sthash.RsKHjpxO.dpuf

    http://www.purplecrying.info/sub-pages/information-for-dads/fatherhood-when-the-worries-settle-in.php

    Γιατί κλαίει το μωρό

    http://www.purplecrying.info/information-for-dads.php

    http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/content/123/3/972.abstract

    http://www.dontshake.org/

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    χαχα να περάσουμε αλλά δεν νομίζω ότι είμαστε και πολλοί. Να λοιπόν δίνω το παρόν. Μέχρι τώρα έχω βρει τον ifather συνονόματο Νίκο! Ελπίζω να χει δει το topic

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    μόλις το είδα.

    3 κι ο admin είμαστε όμως όπως φαίνεται...


    “ Life really does begin at forty. Up until then, you are just doing research.” Carl G Jung

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    Λοιπόν μπαμπάδες ας περιμένουμε και τότε μέχρι να κάνουμε λίγο "μπούγιο" :P:p:p γιατί ήμεθα μειοψηφία :P:p:p Άντε να μαζευτούμε καμιά δεκαριά να αρχίσουμε κουβέντα

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    Γειά σας !

    κάναμε edit στο πρώτο post και προσθέσαμε κάποια λινκ για νέους μπαμπάδες. !

    Έχετε να συμβουλέψετε κάτι τους άλλους μπαμπάδες πχ κάποια κείμενα που σας βοήθησαν και απευθύνονται ειδικά σε νέους μπαμπάδες;

    (το τόπικ έχει τίτλο Νέος μπαμπάς και έχει στόχο να βοηθήσει τους νέους μπαμπάδες συγκεκριμένα! ) !

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    Γεια σας namal και devinefather! καλωσήρθατε!

    5-6 μπαμπάδες πρέπει να είμαστε μόνο!

    Με δυο γιους εγω, 4.8 χρονων ο ένας και 17 μηνών ο άλλος!:D


    “ Life really does begin at forty. Up until then, you are just doing research.” Carl G Jung

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    Καλή χρονιά και σε σένα αγαπητέ και στους υπόλοιπους!! με υγεία σε όλα μας τα επίπεδα!:D

    Εγω προσωπικά καλά είμαι και τα καμάρια μου το ίδιο! ο μικρός βγάζει κάτι κυνόδοντες τώρα και 2-3 μέρες γκρινιάζει ο καϋμενούλης... ευτυχώς όμως κοιμάται από τις 8.30 το βράδυ για 12ωρο σχεδόν! Μαγεία!χαχα!

    Ο μεγάλος αρχίζει πάλι παιδικό από αύριο και θα ξεκουραστώ λιγάκι κανά πρωινό. Με τα κρύα αυτές τις μέρες και μια ίωση που πέρασε ήταν κυρίως μέσα, οπότε φρίκαρε(κι εγώ μαζί!:tongue:)

    Εγώ σαν μπαμπάς συνήθως κατά τις 9 το βράδυ αρχίζουν να πέφτουν οι ασφάλειες,χαχα!! Κατά τις 10.30 έχω "προσγειωθεί" στο κρεββάτι:tongue:

    Τα δύο χρειάζονται πολύ ενέργεια από την πλευρά του γονιού έχω διαπιστώσει:rolleyes:

    Εσείς?τα δικά σας? πώς την περνάτε την όλη φάση που βρίσκεστε?


    “ Life really does begin at forty. Up until then, you are just doing research.” Carl G Jung

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